A lot of us have learned to seek it through signs, synchronicities, or sudden clarity—something outside of us that says, this is the way.

And yes, it’s okay to ask for guidance when you’re unsure.

It’s okay to want clarity. That’s part of being human.

But lately, I’m beginning to realize something deeper.

Guidance isn’t just about what to do.

It’s not about getting the right answer.

It’s not a performance we pass or fail.

At its core, guidance is relationship.

It’s a quiet walking-with.

It’s the presence of Spirit that says, I’m here, even when you don’t know what’s next.

The shift isn’t about giving up signs or asking fewer questions.

It’s about softening into the knowing that you’re never alone in the asking.

Sometimes guidance looks like synchronicity.

Sometimes it looks like stillness.

Sometimes it’s not about the direction—but about the companionship in the step.

We’re not doing it wrong.

We’re just remembering that guidance has always been more about who we’re with than where we’re going.